Confidence makes a girl sexy

In my line of work, I'm always on the lookout for what's hot and what's not, what's sexy and what's a turnoff. And when it comes to people or relationships, there is one word that I hear over and over and over again: Confidence. And guess what? Apparently it's pretty hot. Confidence seems to be the one thing that most people find extremely attractive. But what is it about confidence that makes it so sexy?

A confident person is one of the most attractive people in a room, whoever else is in there. Looks to a surprising degree go out the window when someone is truly confident in themselves. We need to be confident but not too confident that we look arrogant. We need to be seen as a leader but without being bossy or dominating. Showing confidence implies power and authority. Not necessarily power over other people, but over situations. As far as anyone in that entire bar knows, you are the most confident person in the room.

It could have something to do with confidence being a trait that helped us survive in the early days of human beings, or maybe self-assurance just makes sex better it does. Either way, most girls would agree that a guy who can take car of himself would make a good date, or even someone to just watch some Netflix with. But what makes a girl attractive? What type of personality traits does a girl need to have for a guy to not only want to hook up with her, but then cook her breakfast the next day?

Kriste Peoples. I missed seeing my friend and wanted more time with her, but I knew I was lucky to see her at all back then. In the aftermath of a nasty divorce, she tightened her circle of friends and all but shut down her social calendar. The heaviness in her voice and her listless demeanor were explanation enough.